To use the Coquette Black Harness Set, first put on the harness halter top and adjust the straps and garters to your comfort. The removable restraints can be attached or removed according to your preference. You can wear it over your clothes for a fashionable layer or pair it with other items for a more daring look. When it comes to maintenance, gently hand - wash it in cold water with mild detergent. Avoid using bleach or harsh chemicals. Let it air dry. Keep in mind that the accessories shown with the set are sold separately, so you'll need to purchase them if you want the full look. Also, since it's a one - size item, it should fit most body types, but make sure to adjust the straps properly for the best fit.