Using this Coquette Style Black Lace Harness and Panty Set is easy. First, put on the panties and then adjust the harness straps to fit your body comfortably. You can play around with the lace - up details to make it look just the way you like. If you're using the clip - able leash, simply attach it to the large metal rings. When it comes to maintenance, it's best to hand - wash this set in cold water with a gentle lingerie detergent. Avoid using bleach or harsh chemicals as they can damage the lace and satin. After washing, lay it flat to dry. And remember, keep it away from sharp objects to prevent any tears in the delicate lace.