Using this riding crop is easy. Hold it by the braided handle and let the wrist loop give you a secure grip. Swing it gently at first to get a feel for the impact. You can choose the faux leather side for a more intense and audible crack, or the rose - patterned fabric side for a softer sensation. When using it on your partner, always communicate and make sure they're comfortable. As for maintenance, keep it in the provided satin bag when not in use to prevent it from getting dirty or damaged. Avoid exposing it to extreme temperatures or rough surfaces. If it gets dirty, you can use a soft, damp cloth to gently clean it, but don't soak it. Remember, this is a tool for fun and intimacy, so use it responsibly and enjoy the pleasure it brings.