Using this dildo is easy. If you're using the suction cup base, find a flat and clean surface, press the base firmly onto it to create a strong hold. You can then enjoy hands-free fun. If you're using it with a harness, just attach it securely to the harness. Before use, make sure to use a good quality water-based lubricant to enhance the experience. When it comes to maintenance, clean it with warm water and mild soap after each use. Rinse it thoroughly and let it dry completely before storing it. Keep it in a cool and dry place, away from direct sunlight. Also, don't use it with silicone-based lubricants as they can damage the silicone material. And always check the toy for any signs of damage before each use. Have fun and stay safe!